Friday, March 31, 2006

okay...so its been awhile since I've posted. ^_^ I'm bad about that sometimes

well today is my second day on my new job...so far so good. Keep in mind I'm working with my father and we have an excellent relationship anyway. We are about to eat lunch. I am is office assistant/book keeper. I am a fast worker and am actually trained in organization methods (don't ask) so don't get the idea that I'm not qualified for the job. He picked me because he knew I could do it and he didn't have a stranger come to his apartment. That and my schedule is very flexible which is good because his is insane.

...why am I justifying this to you? oh lord, I'm explaining myself to nom-sentient entity...

that can't be a good thing...

well this morning I've spent organizing over a year and a half's worth of receipts, and I'm gonna kill him if he does this again. I've already started developing a workable filing and processing system for his various expenses so I don't have to do this for any other tax year.

oh...I also get to shred things...have I mentioned random destruction can be quite fufilling? *winks*

anyway lunch is ready...

Tuesday, March 21, 2006

careful of those manic mondays

yesterday was so odd, I'm not actually sure where to start.

A cop stepped in front of my boyfriend's car, almost got himself killed and threatened to give him a ticket for something completely BS. My current plan is to figure out who it was and have them reported for reckless endangerment.

I had dance class. Wonderful time and a darned hard workout followed by a trip to IHOP. Quite tasty.

I then pass out getting into my friends's truck (that happens unfortunately often btw...the passing out not the truck thing) and hit the pavement only to wake up back in front of my apartment wet and freezing cold.

Did I mention the pouring rain that I didn't knnow was forecasted?

I was a movie with my boyfriend and one of our friend's recovering from the cold before I start working on the final project I have a ways to go on thats due the next day. And yes, I do know my planning on that sucked.

Work for awhile. Its starts out well, but then I get stuck on one of the landscape elements. My boyfriend falls asleep.

Then walking from my kitchen back into my living room I blaked out again, landing apparently solidly on my knees (they are bruised) and hitting my forehead on the wall (that's bruised to).

My boyfriend wakes up to this, helps me up, where I proceed to break into sobbing hysterics. The stress had finally hit the boiling point and I cried for a full hour.

My boyfriend bundled me off to bed after realizing that I'd still pass the class without this project. This was at 8 am this morning.

I'm tired, but as I just finished the last class for my whole quarter, I don't feel like just going and sitting at home...I wanna do something exciting. But my boyfriend has work till 11pm.

*sigh* I feel the urge to something new and crazy, but then I look at my legs and the cane supporting them, feel my forehead twinge when I furrow my eyebrows, and realize that I can't. Not alone.

And suddenly I long for that white tree in the Barnes and Noble parking lot when the sun is gone and only the lamp shows that life exists. I want to be back there and feel that complete freedom for a moment...just an instant, hoping it will stop the tears welling in my exhausted eyes.

Wednesday, March 15, 2006

did very well on my exam this morning, in spite of being extrodinairily drowsy this morning...I almost fell asleep while studying in the upstairs cafe. My new sleep medication specifies 8 hours, but I went to bed late unexpectedly and screwed that up.

now very tired with a fairly long day ahead. Don't know how much I'll be able to do today, but I'm gonna try.

Had a very...zen moment...the other day. I had just read the newest in a series I like at Barnes and Noble. As I walked out into the night of the parking lot I saw a tree glowing in the ultra-bright light of the nearest street lamp. It was covered in five-petaled white flowers...they looked like stars. On an impulse I walked over and stood underneath it, staring up into the branches. Reaching out, the petal were silken and cool from the gusts of wind whipping through the area.

The world disappeared around me. It was only me and pure beauty of the earth. I could feel it absorb me into its fold.

Then someone called my name. *sigh* such a rude interruption, but they couldn't have known.

G'nite.

Monday, March 13, 2006

well...going into Final's week and I will have no life. None at all. I have to finish my board game for psychology...on my own. My group is completely useless in that respect. Its not so much a problem that I don't want to do the work (I came up with the project when I didn't think I'd be in a group), its that they are going to get credit for something they did nothing on...eeerrrrggghhh. Oh well, c'est la vie.

In other news I;m learning to use pastels...they are soooo ridiculously pretty. Now if I could just figure out how to work them properly. I might even use them in one of my final projects...*gaspness* I don't generally work in color because no really ever taught me how. I'm sort of learning on the fly right now. I honestly didn't know that such a little bowl of fruit could cause such a huge problem. The final is much cooler. It a phantasmagorical (my teachers swear to deities that this is an actual word) landscape designed to portray grand space and depth using abstarctish a invented shapes. We can have a few recognizeable hings, but nothing that wacks you upside the head.

Anyway gotta run and do stuff. Wish me luck!

Friday, March 10, 2006

okay...attempting not to panic. I left all my supplies for the still life drawing today back at the apartment and am not sure if I can get them from said apartment by class time at 2pm....*takes a deep breathe to prevent hyperventilation*

got to go figure out a plan, or doomed doesn't even begin to describe it.

Thursday, March 09, 2006

woohoo! the exam was easy...thats a huge relief.

well...am currently obsessing over my new Conan charcter. Not really sure why. I haven't been this into one of my characters since I first started table-top gaming. Just spent the last 45 minutes scouring the internet for information on the Aquilonian calander so I can give her a "birthday" of sorts. Not sure if that counts as pathetic or not. Its in the supplement "Aquilonia, Flower of the West" but I read through the book yesterday at Oxford and its nothing special. I don't feel like paying 35$ for nothing special. The only thing I would use the book for is the calender info. Guess I'll have to just go back to Oxford with paper and a pen. Wonder if I'm allowed to do that...ehh, not like they'll know.

Still working on the questionaire for the GM. Looks like I'm gonna just have to bite the bullet on some of the "What would you do if..." questions. They call for instinctual character responses and I haven't been able to nail down how I want this character to think. I was originally thinking she would just be quirky, but I'm leaning toward very eccentric (others call it crazy) when I play her. But at the same time, I'm leary about committing to the umm...eccentric idea. She's a good person. She's just got a few screws loose.

Probably should just go with what feels right for the character. My goal is to have the questionnaire done in a day or two.

In other news...I'm hungry.

Wait...I have chocolate in my back pack! YES!!! TTYL
*sigh* spent most of today studying uncomfortably in the library. My back hurts more than I thought it would and doesn't seem to be feeling better. I'll probably give it some more time as I just hurt it yesterday. *blushes in embarassment* to those of you who I'm sure will be asking me how I managed to hurt myself I will explain when I see you next. And clean out you brains, it wasn't anything dirty.

Had my personal space completed invaded while trying to study. This guy from school, keeping in mind I dont know his name having been introduced once almost a year ago, came over to my table to say hello. He got within inches of my face while talking and then suddenly rested his head on my shoulder against my neck! I like to consider myself a fairly easy-going person, but he and I are are nothing more than aquaintences. I was uncofortable to the point of speechlessness.

Then again, the first week after we'd been intorduced in passing he thought it was okay to stand next to me and stroke my hair...

Ugghhh...

I'm gonna have to run off to class. I have an exam in psychology that I'm very unenthused over. My main goal is to pass, nothing more. I love psychology, but she kills it...repeatedly with a really big hammer. X_X

Monday, March 06, 2006

why?! why will it not correctly post?! aaarrrggghhh...

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okay...well Friday was an evening of fairly mixed emotions. My boyfriend was supposed to get off at 10pm. When I called to make sure, he didn't know when he was actually going to get off. He was going to be the only pharmecutical tech working from 8pm until whenever he could get off. To make things worse it was their brand new night pharmacist (she's never worked in a retail pharmacy and his is the busiest in their entire district). He was already frustrated because he had wanted to visit with friends and grab a bite to eat when he got off.

Well I had had lunch but it was getting on 9 o'clock, and my friend Maggie was starving so we tried calling various friends. It ended up with us going to AppleBees so people could get food. I got something small so I could still get food wth my boyfriend when he got off. Around 11:20 I called the pharmacy to see where he was and he'd just left. He doesn't have a cell phone so I kinda waited figuring he'd call me from the gas station nearby when he found no one home.

He did. He called around 11:35, just as we were getting our checks for food. He asked where we were. So I told him and asked him if he wanted me to bring him anything home. He sounded like he had a bad day. So my plan was to get the check, go home, and figure out where he wanted to get food. I didn't get a chance. He snapped at me that he'd wanted to see people but nevermind. He was going to go find himself food, gave a terse goodbye, and hung up.

At this point I don't know why he's acting that way, but I figured he kinda needed to be alone, which is the usual case when he's had a particularly rough day. So I continued to hang out with friends. We drove to a neighborhood nearby to look at the pretty houses.

While we were out he called again from a friend's phone and asked where I was. I told him and he snapped "I'll see you in the morning then." When I tiredly asked if he was going to bed, he continued in the same tone about having work in the morning, how late it was and how he mistakenly thought we were going to visit with people. At this point one of us hung up and I started to tear up. My friends asked what I wanted to do and all I wanted to do was go home.

As I arrived at our apartment, Maggie noticed his car was gone. I began to worry, but just as we got in the house my phone rang. He was again trying to figure out where I was and I told him at home.

This was going to be a pretty big arguement I was sure. He'd acted like a complete ass and I had no idea why. I shuffled Maggie out of the apartment just as his car pulled back into our block, sat on the recliner, and waited.

What ensued was not at all what I'd expected. That day at the pharmacy the new pharamacist had panicked and told him to do something. As he is just a tech, the pharmacist can have him written up for not following instructions. Three write-ups and you're fired. He already has one and one of his bosses is trying find ways to fire him anyways because he doesn't take the guy's crap. Well, this particular something was illegal for him to do according to state law, so he said no. She got even more panicked and told him flatly just to do it. After three hours of having to man all four tech stations (drop-off, pick up, drive thru, and intial counts) on his own he was fried, broke down, and did it. She then tried to get him to do something else that only a pharmacist can do, but he utterly refused.

So he had gone in to full freak-out mode, both because he broke the law and he was terrified he screwed something up and hurt someone. He had desperately needed someone (in particular me) when he had gotten home, but didn't bother to tell me any of this on the phone. He yelled about how he'd wanted to see me, but apparently I didn't want to see him. I started to cry and backed up a littel as he continued to rave, but I realized one all important detail. He wasn't raving at me, not really. He had hit the breaking point and was taking it out on the only person who down here who's that close to him. He said he felt like he was going insane and hit himself in the head. I yelled at him to stop. His father is severely disabled due to a brain hemorrhage. I will not lose him that way.

Finally, he began to calm down slumped down into the recliner, utterly defeated. He continued talking. He had lost it at work. He didn't even know what he was doing much anymore. The one person who cared enough was standing there trying to understand and trying to figure out how to help, but all he could was yell about something there was no possible way for me to have known about. The last thing he had wanted to do was take it out in any way on me. All he wanted since 9pm at work was to hold me. He looked at me with a look of deep-seated hopelessness and asked a question that nearly broke my heart. "So I guess this is it for us huh?" He choked on the last word. I asked why. He said "Because of this whole thing....what I did just now, yelling at you." I walked over to him and ran my hands on his face. He had scared me, it was true. But not once was I scared for me, but scared from him. It would take a lot more than some elling for me to stop loving him as much as I do. I'm sure at some point down the lineI'm gonna yell at him. Heck, my parents and I had gotten into worse fights, but I still love them and think they were good parents.

But I told him I did think he should talk to someone. His father messed him up pretty bad as a child, and I think its still affecting him. As much as he fights being anything like his father, with at least some help he won't be able to properly move on. He asked me to get him the number for a counselor at our college today, which I did.

He's apologized more than once for that night. It hurt yeah, but everyone has days where its simply too much for them to handle alone. He's never been taught hown to handle that point, and I don't care what anyone says...you can't really on intuition alone.

Friday, March 03, 2006

well this is my first post...unfortunately its not destined to be terribly interesting as today was just another friday. Mayhaps it will get more interesting.

One of my professors did flirt with me though...that was really weird. ~_~ oh well...he's a really good professor. (no worries it wasn't lecherous or anything, very gentlemanly flirting)

Gavin's working until ten tonight...gahh!